As far as lube, I know nothing about it. Even you, with your run-on sentences and horrible punctuation. Will try again later and report back. Instructions unclear. It only makes sense to try anal sex in this position!
If you are going to get fucked, try to empty your rectum first by shitting into a toilet.
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Before you can get into these anal sex positions, you should prepare. If you are going to get fucked, try to empty your rectum first by shitting into a toilet. Just go and get the lube called fisting lube, it will numb you extremely well for anal penetration. Take whatever time you need to keep each other sexually excited in different ways. Anvil works well as an anal sex position because your man can lean over you, causing your hips to rise and provide more access to your butthole. Start on your back on the bed with your legs lifted. Instead of being on the bed with you, your partner stands next to it, and you scoot toward the edge.